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Real help for people involved in child custody -- initial
determination of custody or change of custody -- or divorce. This listing of individuals, groups, companies, services, organizations and professionals can
make a difference today. Just starting or starting over -- this is the place to
begin.
Neil and Gail Gallagher are winners in the fight to gain custody of your
grandchildren. They truly are the voice of the children. Because of their 4
year quest to protect their grandchildren, they know the legal obstacles and
challenges you may encounter along the way. They have been through the process
and pain and their story and struggles will inspire you to press ahead and never
quit in your quest for answers. In Gail's new book Grandparents Winning Custody
Of Grandchildren, you will find the information you need in your quest to rescue
your grandchildren.
As a bipolar mother I will never have custody of my children. That is the
hardest thing I had to accept. Parenting at a Distance helps me send them
activities that will help them remember me with some happy memories. I am
getting better and they are getting older. Some day there will be an opportunity
for us to sit together. I will tell them how much joy I found in putting
together their projects and I hope they will be able to tell me how much they
enjoyed my efforts. Really a good book. Meghan Morris --Letter to the publisher
Parenting at a Distance, has been a great resource for me. At first the
mother of my son didn't want to help me communicate with the kids. The fact that
I had a plan for contact with them and was consistent won her over. I think she
gets as much a kick out of the seeing what will be in the next package as the
boys do. Ken Richards --Weekend Fathers Newsletter.
Wayne M. Rooney Consulting Detective
808-371-7301
P.O. Box 807 Haleiwa, HI 96712
sholmes@pixi.com
ANYONE CAN BE FOUND.
We specialize in finding Missing Children. Parental abduction, runaways,
and kidnapped children; all can be found.
How To Go To Visitation
Without Throwing Up is a book for young children about coping with regular visitation to separate
parents, especially long-distance visitation. Written in very simple language
arising from the point of view of a young boy who had a hard time adjusting to
the stress of traveling back and forth to visit his mother.
How To Go To
Visitation Without Throwing Up offers more than just a mere advisory text - it
has point-by-point observations, travel safety tips, and numerous fun
activities to pass the travel time. Click here to see the Table
of Contents. How To Go To Visitation Without Throwing Up is highly
recommended reading, and a great resource for any parent having to take a child
on a long-distance trip to visit friends and relations.
Available at Amazon.com.
Mothers Without Custody Email:
jisham@aol.com
P.O. Box 36, Woodstock, IL 60098
P.O. Box 27417, Houston, TX 77227-7418
Provides support and information on the national "Mothers Without
Custody" and has information for starting support groups dealing with custody
related issues. The purpose of Mothers Without Custody is: To enhance the
quality of life for our children by strengthening the role of the non-custodial
parent in regard to custody, child support, visitation, and parenting. To
provide a self-directed network and an outlet for the sharing of experiences
for mothers without physical custody of their children for any of the following
reasons:
Voluntary exchange of custody,
Coerced voluntary exchange of custody,
Court rulings,
Child(ren) being abducted by the father,
Child(ren) opting to live with the father or
State intervention.
To educate and inform the public of issues affecting the non-custodial
mother and her children in order to dispel biases against children and parents
who do not have physical custody. To serve as liaison between organizations
and individuals that promote children's health, happiness, and well-being,
and that of mothers without custody. To cooperate with local, state, and
national officials to further the well-being, health, and happiness of our
children. To carry out such lawful association activities as a majority of
the board of directors may direct. Pamphlets, books, shirts, informational
packets - please call for details! Mother-To-Mother: a 16 page, quarterly
support newsletter. $25 annual membership fee.
ParentingTime.net
ParentingTime.net is a unique online service that can help you win custody,
change custody, or reduce child support. ParentingTime is used every day by
thousands of parents and families worldwide. ParentingTime is an online custody
calendar that allows you to easily schedule and track parenting time as well as
monitor compliance with your custody arrangement. Find out more
here, or
try the Demo to experience
ParentingTime for yourself.
Win Your Child Custody War
2011 Edition.
More than 800 triple-columned pages of vital
information about fighting for custody of your children. This book is for
parents facing a vicious or dangerous person on the other side.
Topics include your child having an attorney of
his or her own, who must listen to the child's wishes, admit-deny to pin down
the lies once and for all, how to keep your job from losing your child custody
case, home study, psychological evaluation, false accusations of child abuse,
dealing with real child abuse, Parental Alienation Syndrome, how to turn hearsay
into documented evidence,
hiring a great attorney and grounds for suing a bad one, the difference between
issues and non-issues, how to produce contact logs that will help rather than
hurt your case and much more. In most cases the other parent does not win
custody you lose custody. This book won't let that happen to you. Information
about fathers' rights, mothers' rights, grandparent rights and attorneys. This
manual has been on the market longer, and is updated more often, than any other
available. Click here to see how parents, grandparents and professionals
Praise
this manual. For people going through a divorce or the never-married
parent. This is not a cheap download. It is an expensive manual. It costs less
than 1/2 hour with a good attorney and gives you hundreds and more
topics than any other product.
Available at Amazon.com the biggest,
Google the fastest delivery, and
PayPal the most popular.
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Bureau of Private Investigation
P.O. Box 25884,Honolulu, Hawaii 96825
Hawaii private investigation agency. Investigators are trained,
experienced, licensed, bonded, and insured to provide professionally orchestrated
clandestine operations including locating missing or abducted children. (808) 395-6953
Stone Wall Forensic
Audio & Video Services
Travis
Kitchens Law Office,
Onalaska
, Texas
Stone Wall offers a state-of-the-art recording studio owned
by practicing attorney offers forensic audio and video services including
-- transfer of micro-cassette (answering machine) to cassette tape and compact
disk format transfer of cassette tape to compact disk format clean up and
enhancement of recorded conversation, including removal of tape hiss, hums,
background noises and transcription of conversations preparation of cassette
tape and/or compact disk trial exhibits indexing relevant passages/portions
of the recorded media video editing for mediation purposes video editing
for trial purposes preparation of exhibits for mediation and trial.
Extensive civil and criminal trial and appellate experience,
both alone and as part of legal teams and both as prosecution (plaintiff)
and defense, in District Courts in Trinity, Polk, San Jacinto, Walker, Houston,
Angelina and surrounding counties including cases ranging from capital murder
to forcible entry and detainer, family law, collections, personal injury,
products liability, medical malpractice and deed restrictions.
Numerous video and audio presentations for mediation and
trial. References of judges, clients and other attorneys available upon request.
Stone Wall's Chief Recording Engineer brings over 16 years of recording
studio experience in Los Angeles, Houston and Dallas in addition to working
with Travis Kitchens in forensic audio the last three years. A detailed resume
is available upon request. Reasonable rates and expedited service when necessary.
(936) 642-1818
The Hands-On Guide to Surviving
Adult Children Living at Home
If you're faced with the frustration of
dealing with adult children moving home -with their children and with or without
their significant other, you need to know you're not
alone.
They may be taking advantage of you without even meaning to or
maybe they don't care that they are using you and your resources up.
This site has great information to help you. They even have a
contract for you and your adult children to sign that sets the rules and
obligations that the adult child is expected to be responsible for.
While it's nice to think that families with adult children living with parents
can always get along like they do on TV, the fact is that having adult children
return home -- also called boomerang kids -- can put a ton of stress on you and
your partner.
My Child
Great links for women.
National Coalition of Free
Men
The Public Hearing Room includes testimony and speeches
before public bodies. This material provides excellent examples of how NCFM
is representing you. ...And, it demonstrates how you can get involved in
the political process in a meaningful way by joining in with NCFM. Publications
listed and summarized here are available through the U.S. mail. Topics include
effects of language on male behavior, discrimination against men in criminal
court and more.
Family Tree Maker's
Genealogy
Learn what kind of information you can find through county
courthouses. They list the addresses and telephone numbers for the county
courthouses (in alphabetical order by county):
National
Organization of Women
1000 16th St. NW #700, WA., DC 20036
N.O.W. Is an organization of Men and women who support full
equality for women in truly equal partnership with men. Check out our Action
Alerts and please take action NOW. YOU can make a difference. We have listed
a number of other links to feminist resources/sites on the Web that we find
very useful. Looking forward to hearing from you and meeting you at one of
our actions, events, or meetings. (202) 331-0066
Dear Judge,
From children's hearts and minds to a judge's desk, and now to your
awareness. You will see letters your children could have written. Maybe,
letters you would have written when you were a child, going through your
parent's divorce. Psychologists and mediators agree that children see, hear
and feel more than their parents are aware of. You will see your children in
these letters. The letters are funny, sad, happy, hopeful and amazing.
This book contains 190 letters.
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Parents
Without Partners
The problems are many in bringing up our children alone,
contending with the emotional conflicts of divorce, never-married, separation
or widowhood. PWP Inc. is the only international organization that provides
real help in the way of discussions, professional speakers, study groups,
publications and social activities for families and adults. Through the exchange
of ideas and companionship, we hope to further our common welfare and the
well-being of our children.
Hawaii Board of Private Detectives & Guards
DCCA, PVL, Licensing Branch
1010 Richards St., P.O. Box 3469, Honolulu, HI 96801 (808)
586-3000 or (808) 586-2701
Narcotics
Anonymous
We open the doors to Meetings, Help Line #s, Door to NA
Links, Other Links, Web Rings & Search and Activities.
(800) 338-8750
Debbie Does Divorce
Has a new marriage suddenly thrown step-siblings into
the already frenzied mix of your blended family? If so, you’re likely to
have your hands full: Managing a bigger family, warding off negative
emotions, and making sure all the kids get along. But fear not, help is
just a click away in the form of clinical social worker Debra
Burrell, who shares her expert tips with Debbie.
Resources for Stepdads:
Stepdad.org
Stepfathers on Fatherville.com
Seven Steps to Being a Better Stepdad
Stepfathering on About.com
Stepdad on Fathers.com – National Center on Fathering
TheStepfamilyLife’s Links for Stepdads
Child Custody Witness Guide for Deposition or in Court
Essential to giving the testimony you need to give.
Critical for the witnesses you are counting on. Important for all types
of cases and essential for child custody and divorce cases. You only get one
chance to protect your fathers rights, mothers rights or grandparent rights
in court. Avoid the tricks and traps of questioning. This books fast easy
solution will let you watch the effectiveness of your case skyrocket! This
book is 5 1/2" X 9" with more than 230 pages.
Oahu Civil Courts
For the first time in Hawaiian History these records are
now available to you on CD-Rom.
Now you are able to identify:
- Chronic Litigants
- Unlawful Detainer Actions : Evictions
- Cases without having to run to the court house to look up the
file.
- Deadbeats of various types.
- Witness Statement verifications
- Perform Pre-Employment Screening
- Perform Pre-Tenant Screen Background Checks
More importantly you can perform risk assessments relating
to individuals you wish to do business with. It has taken us three years to
make this data available. If you'd like more information or a demonstration of
our software call: Call Charleta Freitas at 808-677-4744
Habilitat
School of Survival
P.O. BOX 801 Kaneohe, Hawaii 96744
Creative and effective substance abuse treatment for over
25 years, Habilitat has helped thousands of people overcome problems with
substance abuse, self-destructive life-styles, and other anti-social behavior.
Through an extended family environment, discipline with love and respect,
and constructive criticism, Habilitat teaches those with low self-esteem
to deal with life's problems without turning to drugs or alcohol. (808) 235-3691
Child Custody Case Management Forms
2010 Edition. Chapters include forms that will help you 'Get a Handle on
Your Situation', deal with 'The Professionals', institute and maintain control,
'Case management', and give you 'Examples of Legal Forms'. Fathers Rights
and Mothers Rights groups encourage dads and moms to use the 'Incident Report
Forms' and an observer to defuse potentially explosive confrontations. The
'Condition of the Child Form' is excellent for creating a paper trail to prove real charges or disprove false abuse charges. Other forms include Contact Problem and Incident
List, Evidence to Disprove Statements, Equipment & Service Options, Witness
Practice - Review, Evaluating the professionals, Authorization for Child’s
Medical Care, Temporary Delegation of Parental Authority, Trip Permission.
Essential to the effective management of the most important event in your
life. The control you gain and maintain can help with child custody or divorce.
This book is 8 1/2" X 11" and contains more than 320 examples and forms.
There is the full Table of Contents for the book at our website.
Putting Kids
First
Walking Away From A Marriage Without Walking Over The Kids
A positive guide for parents to assist in dealing with issues
of custody and visitation of children. The Midwest Book Review said: “ At
last: a guide which advises parents on how to walk away from a marriage with
the least effects on the children. New attitudes about children and divorce's
effects are needed: Oddenino provides these insights, juxtaposing case history
examples of parent interactions and experiences with the legal system with
keys to therapies which help heal the entire family.” The author is an
attorney for the Children’s Right’s Council. To order call
or (936) 327-9007
Hawaii State Coalition Against
Domestic Violence
716 Umi Street, Suite 210, Honolulu, HI 96819-2337
(808) 832-9316 (voice) (808) 841-6028 (fax)
Marriage Encounter
Assemblies of God Marriage Encounter
Baptist Marriage
Encounter
Episcopal Marriage Encounter
Jewish
Marriage Enhancement
International Lutheran
Marriage Encounter
Methodist Marriage
Encounter
Roman Catholic Marriage
Encounter
Seventh-Day Adventist
Marriage Encounter
Engaged Encounter, is a weekend experience designed to help couples
prepare personally and as a couple for marriage. The focus is on the marriage,
not on the wedding. "A wedding is a day ... a marriage is a lifetime." Couples
are shown communication and decision-making techniques they can use throughout
their lifetime together. Engaged Encounter is specifically designed for quiet
reflection and discussion by each couple. It is a positive, simple, common-sense
experience between two people who are either seriously considering engagement,
engaged or recently married. At no time will the couple be asked to share
their private experiences with the group.
Killers
& Boosters for Child Custody Cases
(Attitude Adjustment for Child Custody Case Litigants)
Advice is usually given by people without the real information
or life experience, with the right intention at the wrong time. With this
book you can take advice when you want it and ready to hear it. You can
act on what you have learned, mull it over or discard the advice altogether
without interference. This book will not allow you to give the opposition power you might imagine but that they do not really have or let you allow
others to diminish the importance you play in your children's lives. Divorce is never easy, this will help. This book has been called 'Chicken Soup' for
the Child Custody Case. It will help a lot and it certainly can't hurt.
This book is 5 1/2" X 9" and has more than 1,700 entries.
This is not your grandma's White Pages!
Find anybody's email address, photos and videos instantly!
Hawaii State Alliance
for the Mentally Ill
1126 12-th Avenue, Suite 205, Honolulu, HI 96816-3714
The NAMI Consumer and Family Guide to Schizophrenia Treatment1
gives patients and families information about treatment that has been shown
to work. While other interventions may also be helpful, an extensive body
of research, analyzed by leading experts in schizophrenia, shows that the
treatments and services. The first step in identifying the best treatment
for you or your loved one is getting the right diagnosis. These treatment
recommendations presume an accurate diagnosis of schizophrenia. (808) 737-2778
Single Momz
The site for Single Momz by Single Momz. We know what it's
like. Whether you came to single Motherhood by choice or not, you're
here and we're glad you've joined us. Our goal is to provide an informative
and supportive network where we Single Mothers can share our experiences
& knowledge, friendship & caring in support of each other and Single
Mothers everywhere. You'll find a variety of topics, ranging from potty
training to presidential candidates, child support to career strategies,
teenagers to time savers. If you don't find what you need, just ask, we're
all Single Momz here, and we're here to help!
NO BULLY website
This site is part of the Telecom/Police STOP BULLYING Campaign.
Spot and Bo are here to show you around the site. You can hang out with
Bo and his friends and play the No Bully game, and he's got lots of other
useful stuff for kids. Spot can help you to find out about support services
in your community and ways that adults can help kids to deal with bullying.
This site originates in New Zealand but addresses a world
wide problem. Telecom is the major sponsor of Police programs which help
young New Zealanders to avoid becoming offenders or victims of crime. The
programs encourage children and young people to act safely and confidently
to protect themselves and their property, and avoid drug abuse. Telecom supports
the Police because we recognize it is the responsibility of all New Zealanders
to allow our children and young people to grow up in a safe and healthy environment.
Law Enforcement Agencies
The Police Officer's Internet Directory
American Psychiatric
Association
American Psychoanalytic
Association
The American Psychoanalytic Association is a professional
organization of psychoanalysts throughout the United States. The Association
is comprised of Affiliate Societies and Training Institutes in many cities
and has about 3,000 individual members. We are a Regional Association of
the International Psychoanalytical Association.
American Psychological
Association
750 First Street, NE, Washington, DC 20002 (202) 336-5500
American Society of Addiction
Medicine
4601 North Park Ave, Arcade Suite 101, Chevy Chase, M.D.
20815
"The nation's medical specialty society dedicated to educating
physicians and improving the treatment of individuals suffering from alcoholism
or other addictions." (301) 656-3920
Center for Mental
Health Services
Site includes; Search, What's New, Newsroom, Funding,
Kids Area, Español, Databases, Mental Health at HHS, Calendar, Publications,
Catalog, Mental Health Information, Professionals, Links and About CMHS
IRS Forms & Publications
The latest IRS publications and forms with instructions
for download in the various formats.
Child Support Enforcement Agency
Department of Attorney General
(808) 587-3698 (800) 468-4644
680 Iwilet Street, Suite 490,Honolulu, HI 96817
Child Support Guidelines
These numbers are only approximations
1 Child = 20%
2 Children = 25%
3 Children = 32%
4 Children = 40%
5 Children = 45%
Hawaii State Bar Association (for attorney referrals)
Penthouse 1, 9th Fl., 1136 Union Mall, Honolulu, HI 96813
Hawaii Lawyers Care Referral Service for Pro
Bono (808) 528-7046
National Association of Social Workers
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